What we think we become!

Our thoughts manifests not at once but somewhere down the lane!

People think childhood is the sweetest phase of life but unfortunately not everyone has a sweet childhood!

The society saw me as a doctor’s daughter and I was treated like a celebrity wherever I went as we lived in a rural area!

But my mom worked tirelessly day and night, my dad was sick and was bedridden most of the time! It was disheartening to see my dad suffering!

As a single daughter with no one to share my fears and doubts, I felt at one stage of life I should build a proper family! A family of my own!

I put all my dreams and aspirations at back seat and worked towards making a family, nothing mattered all I wanted was a family!

After many years I realised there were many things I wanted to pursue in life which I never considered at all…but I have built a beautiful family!

Manifestations are real, our thoughts have power to attract what we want, feed your thoughts and in heart of heart have your desire strongly rooted!

One fine day your thoughts manifest!

Sharing Spaces!

 “ Cooking is an art “

“ Cooking is a therapy”

Yes I’m mulling over these statements, how many of them who cook on daily basis will agree to these lines.

Cooking occasionally for guests or trying out innovative dishes could be real fun.

Day in and day out if you slog in the kitchen, Is it an enjoyable chore?

The morning steaming cup of coffee followed by idli, vada, pongal or whatever then once again lunch with sambar, kootu, porial. Evening cup of tea or coffee once again with snacks and to end the day with rotis and subjis.

Typing this elaborate spread for a day is tiring… how about cooking them?Have you ever given a thought how tedious and time consuming is Indian cooking!

The woman who misses an alarm controls nature’s calls to pack food for the family.

And the woman will be criticised for missing the alarm and not seen as a human.The most unthankful job ever.

Rain or shine, good day or bad day,sick or healthy,stressed or happy nothing matters, cooking goes on and on,thanks to swiggy and zomato that shower care when women in the household are sick.

We could say food is medicine so we are healthy compared to western people and all such stuff.

As we humans evolve in a digital age where women want to excel in their professional front , will these domestic drudgery be shared so that it becomes a labour of love.

In the name of love, sacrifice and motherhood entire life of women is spent in kitchen.

Break the mould and normalise sharing the space with everyone at home.

Sharingthekitchen#cookingisbeyondgender#unheedcriticism#

Seniority and Growth: Reflections on Aging with Grace

 Age, by itself, does not command respect. Respect is earned through deeds, character, and the way one chooses to shape oneself over time. Simply growing older is no guarantee of reverence—an old drunkard spewing venom and hurling abuses, for instance, becomes a tragic caricature rather than a figure of esteem.

Similarly, longevity in a workplace isn’t inherently an achievement. Spending years in the same role without growth can foster complacency, leading to a toxic mindset. Such individuals often overestimate their worth, belittle others, and cling to a false sense of superiority. Yet, the illusion shatters the moment they step outside their comfortable cocoon into an unfamiliar setting, where their true standing becomes evident.

Experience, ideally, should be the foundation of humility and wisdom. It should shape individuals into role models, not people who sprout metaphorical horns of arrogance. True growth lies in evolving gracefully—becoming a source of inspiration, not intimidation.

Aging is inevitable, but how we age is a choice. Like fine wine, we should strive to become richer, mellower, and more refined with time. Let our years add flavour to our personality, not bitterness. After all, the hallmark of true seniority lies in grace, not age.