CLOSURES

We don’t realise the importance of this simple word, that impacts hugely in our daily lives.

In this impermanent world where all of us are passengers we start our journey with a set of people and end our journey with different set of people.

In between we meet so many people whom we love,bond,hate,hurt,ignore and betray.

We suffer in many relationships which are close to our heart.

We don’t let go and willingly suffer creating displeasure and pain. 

‘Let go’ seems a simple phrase on paper but not in reality.

Sometimes it is better to give clear signals of closure to certain relationships that turns toxic to mental health. 

Relationships not necessarily romantic ones any association or friendships that steals the inner peace need not be tolerated.

There are people who shut down from us for  unknown reasons , we are surprised at such closures.But respect their decisions, try asking them the reason,if they are not responding, take the closure in right sense.

Healthy boundaries are vital to any relationship similarly closure is also an important act to acknowledge.

When the purpose of the relationship is over closure is the solution to open up new avenues in life.

To reach our destination we have to cross closures in life . 

We have to internalise them and include them as a way of life.

 © Aparna